Amber - Melbourne Wedding Celebrant
  • Celebrations
    • Easy Peasy Marriage
    • Weddings
    • Funerals
    • Master of Ceremonies
    • Naming Ceremonies
    • Other Ceremonies
  • Who is Amber?
  • Reviews
  • Useful Info
  • contact me
    • FAQ

Why You Should Surprise Your Friends Like Jennifer Aniston

7/8/2015

0 Comments

 
This week, Jennifer Aniston and Justin Theroux surprised guests with a wedding disguised as a birthday party. As reported by ET:
"The intimate affair was held in front of 70 of their closest friends and family, including Howard Stern, Jason Bateman, Lisa Kudrow, Chelsea Handler, John Krasinski, Emily Blunt, 
Ellen DeGeneres and more."
Whilst this doesn't sound like my idea of low key or minimum fuss, l have been involved in a many Surprise Weddings over the years and admit l am quite a fan. Here are a few reasons why:

You get to decide everything
We've all been there. Someone you know says “I'm getting married” and after the hugs and hi-fives comes the
 “l know a florist”,
 “you should use my make up artist”,
 “what ever you do, don’t (insert personal opinion here)”
What the happy couple see as their ideal way to get married get’s torn to strips and they are suddenly planning their parents/aunts/best friend’s perfect day.
When you keep it a surprise you get to decide the who, what and where. After all, it is Your Wedding. 

(Please note - when l say "Your Wedding" l mean you AND your fiancé. Weddings where one party to the marriage had no prior knowledge are against the law in Australia. The bride and groom need to both give 30 days notice and full consent.)

Picture
Double the Party
Most Surprise Weddings I’ve been a part of were disguised as a birthday or engagement party. It makes sense. The same people would be invited. The people who really love you will turn up and you were going to spend that money anyway. Depending on how you want it all to happen, the wedding does not have to completely steal the show. At Stephen's 50th recently; we sang happy birthday, he blew out the candles and then afterwards we thrilled the guests with the nuptials. Your wedding can be just one part of the celebrations.

wedding cake
Stephen's 50th Birthday Cake/Wedding Surprise
"Our wedding captured the essence of who Stephen and I were. We felt the ceremony was the perfect length and our guests loved  how we focused on Stephen first and then surprised everyone with the wedding ceremony."
                                                                                                                                  Laura and Stephen

Reduce the drama
Ok – so l am not going to say that Surprise Weddings are without drama. But l will say that drama can be reduced by limiting the lead time people have to create it.
Make sure the important people will be there. This might mean spilling the beans to a stubborn parent or noncommittal friend to ensure they make the effort.
It probably goes without saying, but be realistic about whether any of your guests would be unhappy with your union. If there is doubt that someone would make a scene, would you really want them at your wedding anyway?
surprise wedding melbourne
Low expectations
There are certain expectations we all have about attending a wedding. There will be food and refreshments. There will be some formal part. There will probably be a cake, flowers, seating arrangements, confetti, speeches, high-heels, first dance, beef or chicken and so on and so on. Without even realising, we all expect certain things when we attend a wedding.
However, if you think you are attending a housewarming or engagement party and all you expect is a sausage in bread and a beer or two – what a complete BONUS if you get to witness someone you love getting married.
"The surprise on everyone’s face was just perfect. It was the best way to get married"
                                                                                                             Sharon and John
father at wedding
Your loved ones will be happy for you!
Surprises are Fun
Planning your wedding can be a really special time for you as a couple. The excitement of watching things fall into place and the anticipation of the reaction of your loved ones is heightened with a Surprise Wedding.  
It certainly is one way to ensure your guests will be talking about your day for many years to come.
surprise wedding melbourne
Sharon and John were so excited to surprise their loved ones after 28 years together!
So far l have been a Yogalates Instructor, Life Coach, Neighbour, Bike Buddy 
and old school friend.
What alas would l need to have at your surprise wedding? 
0 Comments



Leave a Reply.

    Call Me

    Picture
    0408813661

      Never Hired a Celebrant?
      Ask for my tips here

    Send Me Tips

    Ask Me

    What do you need to know about weddings and getting married? Ask The Celebrant

    Categories

    All
    All Things Wedding
    Choosing A Celebrant
    Real Weddings
    Wedding Ceremony

    RSS Feed

I would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians and storytellers of the lands on which l live and work.
I pay my respects to all Elders, past and present. I pray my words and actions honour their legacy.
Picture
FOLLOW AMBER 
​
0408813661
Picture
MENU
Home    
Email Amber 
Call Amber
Who is Amber?

Blog + FAQ 
Testimonials       
SERVICE AREAS
​
Eynesbury
Bacchus Marsh
Melton       
​
Tarneit + 
Truganina     
Werribee + Hoppers Crossing
Point Cook + Altona​

SERVICE AREAS
​
Melbourne
Geelong
Bellarine
​
Surf Coast
Country Victoria  
​Australia Wide
​
 CELEBRATIONS  
Weddings
Easy Marriage
Funeral
Naming Days 
​
Master of Ceremonies ​
 ©Amber the Celebrant  Castlemaine walk, Eynesbury Melbourne Victoria 2009-2024
  • Celebrations
    • Easy Peasy Marriage
    • Weddings
    • Funerals
    • Master of Ceremonies
    • Naming Ceremonies
    • Other Ceremonies
  • Who is Amber?
  • Reviews
  • Useful Info
  • contact me
    • FAQ